Last Updated: 27/05/2026
Bringing Home a New Puppy: Surviving (and Thriving) in the First Week
Bringing home a new puppy? Our vet-written guide walks you through the first week hour by hour, from the car ride home and the first night to the 3-3-3 rule, toilet training and the first vet visit.
Author: Dr Gillian Hill BVSc (Hons)
Reading Time: 7 minutes - short read
Bringing home a new puppy is one of the most exciting moments you'll have as a pet parent, and also one of the most quietly nerve-wracking. The car ride. The first night. The crying at 2am. The endless second-guessing about whether you're doing it right. This guide walks you through the first seven days as they actually unfold, hour by hour, so you know what to expect and when to stop worrying.
Before you bring them home
The 48 hours before pick-up are your prep window, and it's worth doing it properly. Our new puppy guide covers what to buy, and how to set up your home for a new puppy walks through the room setup in detail.
A few priorities worth flagging:
- Pick one quiet, easy-to-clean space (laundry, kitchen corner, sectioned-off living room) to be home base. Start their world small.
- Get the same food they've been eating at the breeder or rescue. Sudden food changes on top of a stressful move are a recipe for an upset tummy.
- Puppy-proof at floor height. Loose cords, shoes, anything chewable or plugged in. Our puppy-proofing your home and garden guide has the full room-by-room checklist.
- If you've got resident pets, give the puppy their own space first, separate from where your other dog or cat eats and sleeps.
The first 24 hours
The car ride home is the first big stressor. Bring a towel, a friend if possible (one drives, one holds), and something that smells like their litter. Whimpering and wees are both normal.
When you get home, skip the welcome party. Straight to a patch of grass for a toilet break, then into their prepared room. Let them explore at their own pace. No big introductions, no friends popping over, and limit kids' play sessions to 15 to 30 minutes at a time.
If you've got a resident dog, do the first meeting outside on neutral ground, both on lead, and keep it short. See our guide on introducing a new dog to your existing dog. If you've got a cat, give them a high vantage point and let the puppy see them from behind a baby gate first.
By the end of day one, your puppy should have eaten a small meal, had a few toilet breaks outside, met the immediate household quietly, and slept a lot. That's the win.
The first night with your puppy
This is the hardest bit, and the most common question. Here's the honest version.
Where should they sleep?
Close to you for the first few nights. A crate or pen next to your bed works well. Being alone in a strange house on night one is genuinely frightening for a puppy who, until yesterday, slept in a pile of siblings.
Once they've settled in (usually after the first three to five nights), you can start gradually moving the crate or pen towards its permanent spot. Move it a metre or so each night rather than relocating it in one go. A typical progression looks like: bedside, across the bedroom, out into the hallway, then into the final room. If the crying picks up again at any step, pause for a night or two before moving further. Slow and steady wins this one.
Should I use a crate?
It's a personal call. A crate, used postively, gives puppies a safe den and helps with toilet training. It should never be used as punishment, and shouldn't be a place they're left for long stretches. Our crate training your puppy guide walks through how to introduce it properly. A puppy pen next to your bed works just as well if a crate doesn't suit your household.
They're crying. What do I do?
Rule out the basics first. Do they need a wee? Are they hungry? Too hot or cold? If the basics are covered, a calm hand resting near them, or a quiet voice, is usually enough. You're not "spoiling" them by offering comfort. For more tips, see how to stop puppy crying at night.
How long will the crying last?
Most puppies settle within three to five nights, with the first night almost always the worst. If significant distress is still happening beyond a week, talk to your vet or a positive-reinforcement trainer.
Expect toilet wake-ups. An 8-week-old puppy can hold their bladder for roughly two to three hours at night. Keep wake-ups boring (lights low, no play, straight outside, straight back in).
The 3-3-3 rule
Worth committing this one to memory. The 3-3-3 rule describes the typical adjustment timeline for a new puppy: three days to decompress and feel safe, three weeks to learn your household's routine, and three months to fully bond and feel at home.
- First 3 days: expect a quiet, watchful puppy who's still processing the move. They may sleep a lot, eat less than you'd hope, and seem a little withdrawn. This is normal decompression.
- First 3 weeks: their personality starts to show. They learn the rhythm of meals, walks, and bedtime, and start testing what's allowed and what isn't.
- First 3 months: the bond properly clicks. You'll see real confidence, recognise their quirks, and start to feel like you've always had each other.
If the first few days feel underwhelming, or your puppy seems quiet and unsure, that's decompression doing its job. Confidence comes with routine.
That said, decompression should only look like a puppy who's a bit subdued and watchful, not one who's flat. If your puppy seems very withdrawn, isn't eating or drinking, or just doesn't seem right, book a vet check rather than waiting it out. The 3-3-3 rule is a general guide to behaviour, not a reason to delay veterinary attention.
Days 2 to 7: settling into routine
The goal isn't perfection. It's gentle repetition.
Feeding
Three to four small meals a day for an 8 to 12 week old puppy, at consistent times. Our feeding your puppy guide covers portion sizes and transition timing, and our roundup of the best puppy food is a good starting point if you're still choosing a brand.
Toileting
Out first thing, after every meal, after every nap, after every play session, last thing at night. Reward heavily the moment they go in the right spot. Clean accidents with enzymatic spray (regular cleaners don't break down the scent). Full method in how to toilet train your puppy.
The first vet visit
Book it within the first week. Your vet will do a full health check, confirm vaccinations are on track (our puppy vaccination guide covers the Australian schedule), and talk you through flea, tick and worming.
Gentle handling
A few minutes a day touching paws, ears, mouth and tail pays back tenfold later, when you're brushing their teeth, clipping their nails, or visiting the vet.
Name and basic cues
Use their name in positive contexts only. Start with one or two cues like "sit" using treat rewards. Five-minute sessions, two or three times a day, are plenty. See how to train a puppy for technique.
Sleep
Roughly 15 to 20 hours a day. If yours is biting, zooming and chaotic, they may be overtired. A nap usually fixes it. More in how much puppies sleep.
Red flags to watch for
Most of the first week is normal puppy chaos. The following scenarios aren't normal, and warrant a call to your vet (our guide on what to do if your puppy is sick is worth bookmarking):
- Repeated vomiting or diarrhoea, especially with blood
- Refusing food for more than 12 hours
- Lethargy that doesn't lift after a nap
- Pale gums (healthy gums are pink)
- A swollen belly, especially if painful to touch
- Suspected poisoning (chocolate, grapes, rat bait, snail bait, certain plants)
Save your vet's number and a 24-hour emergency clinic in your phone before you need them.
Bringing a Puppy Home FAQs
The first week with a new puppy is less about getting everything right and more about keeping their world small, quiet and predictable while they decompress. Lean on the 3-3-3 rule when things feel slow, expect a rough first night or two, and book that vet visit early. Everything else falls into place from there.
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Wed 27 May 2026
Written by Dr Gillian Hill BVSc (Hons)Dr Gillian Hill BVSc (Hons)
Veterinarian
Dr. Gillian graduated from the University of Sydney in 2005 with a Bachelor of Veterinary Science. She worked in a number of small animal clinics, before joining the Pet Circle Vet team in 2020. Dr. Gillian has special interests in ultrasonography, surgery and behaviour. Her favourite part of being a vet is being an advocate for the animals. She loves helping owners to make the best, evidence-based decisions for their pets, and seeing the beautiful bond that people have with their fur-babies.
